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How Dealbreakers Can Help You Manifest a Relationship
If you’re single and trying to pull a relationship out of the pandemic’s thin air, first of all, what are you doing? Dating is a personal superspreader. Please reconsider until everyone has access to a vaccine.
But okay, if you must date because you have needs (most humans need intimacy, I get it), and the extremely diluted practice of manifestation has popped up on your Instagram sometime in the past four years, then you’ve probably read that you need to make a list of everything you want in a relationship.
- What does your ideal partner look like?
- What color is their hair?
- How tall are they?
- Are they family-oriented or adventurous?
- What is your lifestyle together like?
- What interests do you two have in common?
- How much money do they make?
- What will your sex life be like?
The more specific you get, the better.
Whether or not you believe in the spiritual aspect of manifestation or you just think that it’s a good idea to know exactly what you’re looking for, writing out this sort of description helps you zero in on your ideal partner. Awesome. But I think we’re forgetting an equally important list — your…
